First thing you must do in a situation such as this is to cool down. When you are overly emotional, you can't act rationally. And if you can't act rationally, there is a chance that you will sound very upset when you call him and he answers the phone.

Perhaps the last time you talked to him you were upset about something and he could sense it. If that was the case, perhaps the reason he is not calling you and is not returning your phone calls now is because he doesn't want to talk to you when you are upset.

Men try to avoid confrontation with their women by all means. Perhaps he is just waiting for a good moment to call you, when you are in a better mood.

When you finally receive that long-awaited call, do not jump up and down with delight, and be kind and calm. While you should be very kind to him when you talk to him, don't sound upset at him for not calling you for so long. Sometimes a man doesn't call a woman because he is afraid that she will be upset when he does. Let him sense that you are not offended but tell him honestly what you expect men you date to treat you with respect and that his disappearance made you question his intentions about you. Then if he wants to elaborate on that, at that time you can tell that you were upset. Just make sure you stay calm and keep your composure when you do say those things.

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