The Importance of Body Language During a Job Interview
From the beginning of your interview until after you bid
good-bye, it's essential to pay attention to the messages
you're sending your interviewer. These include obvious
responses, such as the content of your answers, to more subtle
communications like your mannerisms and speech
patterns.
THE IMPORTANCE OF BODY LANGUAGE
SHAKE HANDS THE PROPER WAY
One of the first things you'll probably do in an interview
is shake hands with your interviewer. The handshake is a simple
symbol of introduction. But it can also be an unspoken gauge of
personality. Hiring managers say that while a limp or
unenthusiastic handshake won't destroy an interview, it can
cause one to start off on a bad note. The same goes for a
sweaty palm. To alleviate the latter problem, be sure to keep
your hands open, not balled into fists, prior to your
interview. This will reduce perspiration. Put a handkerchief or
a few tissues in your pocket, just in case. Also remember that
while a limp handshake is bad, a bone-breaking handshake isn't
much better. Clasp your interviewer's hand firmly and
confidently, but don't overdo.
MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT
A lack of eye contact during an interview can lead your
interviewer to think that you're shy, disinterested, or
dishonest. Likewise, shifting your eyes to and from the
interviewer's face can also send the wrong message. It's no
wonder "shifty-eyed" is a term used to describe a character who
is deceitful or insincere. While you don't want to stare at
your interviewer to the point making him uncomfortable, do
maintain eye contact as much as seems appropriate. If you are
speaking to more than one interviewer, you can shift your gaze,
but be sure to look each interviewer in the eye for at least a
couple of seconds.
WATCH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
The
term "body language" includes just about any manner,
gesture, or posture that conveys meaning to the observer.
Body language is especially meaningful in an interview as
your interviewer will be paying attention to nonverbal
cues as much as to what you have to say Body language to
avoid in an interview includes repeatedly crossing and
uncrossing your legs or arms, fiddling with your hair or
clothes, touching your face, scratching your head, or
playing with a button or pen.
Constant or bold gesturing is also to be avoided. Some of
these mannerisms may be triggered by nervousness. Interview
preparation and rehearsal may help you to feel more relaxed.
Body language that might give your interview a boost includes
leaning forward slightly to show your enthusiasm and nodding
whenever is appropriate, particularly when your interviewer is
making an important point.
SMILE WHEN YOU MEAN IT
Smiling, the universal sign of happiness, is a great way to
convince your interviewer that you're genuinely pleased to be
there. On the other hand, an oversized or artificial grin used
too often during the interview will lead to the opposite
result. Your interviewer will know you're forcing yourself to
act a certain way.
According to Discover Magazine, when a person is sincerely
amused, a part of the brain called the basal ganglia is
activated, leading to the unconscious contracting of certain
facial muscles. A forced smile, however, uses a different group
of muscles, which is why it's generally easy to spot a person
who is legitimately pleased from one who is only pretending to
be.
During an interview, be sure to smile-but only when you mean
it. It's infinitely better to smile occasionally but earnestly
than to smirk constantly for no reason at all.
BE MINDFUL OF PERSONAL SPACE
Individual cultures and even individual people have
different interpretations of what constitutes an appropriate
amount of personal space. While one person might feel at ease
speaking only inches from someone's face, another person might
need several feet of separation. When facing your interviewer,
be mindful of how close you stand or sit. Try to maintain a
distance of about three feet. Communicating at a closer range
may cause your interviewer to feel uncomfortable. On the other
hand, sitting or standing too far away is also impolite.
Simone Piette is a
freelance writer of Career Training Articles plus many other
topics that can be found at http://www.upublish.info
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