Reading Female Body Language

There seems to have been a lot written about body language in the past decade, I guess it satisfies our need to believe that we can know what another person is thinking.

Unfortunately, 99% of it is complete rubbish. There are almost no scientifically verified body language patterns, with wide variations between cultures and in different contexts.

So no, someone crossing their arms does not mean they’re defensive. They could be feeling defensive but that isn’t what the body language is saying, it’s not an explicit language that communicates intentions (for that matter, neither is English).

The only true way to read a person is by becoming sensitive to their body language cues when experiencing or explicitly stating that they are experiencing a certain emotion. The language of the physiology is highly individual, situational and has a variety of different meanings unless it is repeated consistently in the same emotional state.

Anyway, now the good news. I want to share with you the few body language cues that have been tried and tested experimentally, they are cross cultural and extremely reliable.

The first is any touching of the face, particularly the nose or ears. Generally this indicates deception, but beware; Opiate based pain killers can produce the same behavior!

Now this works in two ways in the context of seduction - you can tell when the women is lying and also you now know to keep your own hands away from your face when interacting. This cue is interpreted unconsciously by the woman as a sign of deception, and she will experience the sense that you cannot be trusted. Try it out.

I’ll share some more powerful universal body language cues in later posts, but I really want to get this message across to you - If body language is individual then this gives you a powerful tool of seduction, notice her body language when she is experiencing certain emotions (perhaps telling you a story) and you will have a physiological map of how her emotions are anchored in her body.

What if you reproduced those unconscious body anchors in your own physiology, perhaps to generate sexual states and anchor them to you? Then you wouldn't have to read female body language but use it to produce and reproduce states in her mind unconsciously…this is one i’ll come back to.

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