Body Language That Naturally Attracts Women
You may have heard that your body language and tonality make up
93% in a face to face interaction, whereas what you say only
counts for 7%.
It's very true.
I was recently coaching a client on a Modern Man Lifestyle
Course.
One of the areas I coached him on during the Friday and
Saturday night was BODY LANGUAGE and its impact on naturally
attracting women.
After demonstrating attractive body language in an
interaction with some women, my client and I headed off to
another bar where he was to try it himself.
On the way, I noticed a guy in a café who was sitting alone.
There were two drinks on his table.
Groups of people sat together on the tables around him. It
was a loud, busy atmosphere drenched in the sounds of laughter,
conversation and the clinking of cutlery and glassware.
The guy was relaxed and composed.
I observed the vibe he was giving of to the world and within
seconds it hit me:
This guy understands what it’s like to be successful with
women.
How did I know this?
We at The Modern Man have spent thousands of hours looking
at, analysing and understanding the social dynamics of
male/female attraction.
We know what to look for.
So, what was it about this guy that communicated he had the
‘know how’ to attract women?
Well, let’s take a closer look...
1. I didn’t know the guy, so any knowledge of past
experiences with women didn’t influence my thoughts. 2. I’d
never conversed with him, so voice tone and conversation skills
were out. 3. He was alone, so ‘social proof’ had nothing to do
with it.
How could I possibly know this guy was good with women?
The area in question is POWERFUL; especially when it comes
to naturally attracting women.
What was it?
Yep, you guessed it.
BODY LANGUAGE.
Women INSTINCTIVELY form opinions about you by observing
your body language.
The wrong body language can RUIN any sense of attraction a
woman feels for you in SECONDS.
This particular guy’s body language was:
CONFIDENT
And
MASCULINE
Although there are many ways to display confident and
masculine body language, here are some examples from this
situation:
- He was relaxed back comfortably into his chair.
- His legs were wide apart, but not too wide to be
‘trying’.
- His arms rested comfortably on the chair’s arms.
- His chest was lifted upward, but not too much to be
‘trying’.
My client and I stopped for a minute and I pointed out what
was going on and why women found it attractive.
Here’s something to remember…
Body language is like an advertisement.
In advertising, a high level of importance is placed on what
message is being conveyed. If you get the message right, people
will respond. In terms of body language, women naturally
respond well to guys who are confident and masculine.
Do you currently display the right body language in all
situations?
If not, then you need to work it so you can easily spark a
natural attraction with women.
Be real and resolve to develop more CONFIDENT and MASCULINE
BODY LANGUAGE.
Don’t know how?
Then let us help you.
We are experts in this field and can help you.
One thing I love most about being a dating coach at The
Modern Man, is sharing my knowledge to improve guy’s lives.
I know how it feels to not have the success you deserve with
women. It’s not a nice feeling and I’m sure many of you can
relate.
Oh, and in case you’re wondering who eventually came and sat
down at the table?
An extremely attractive young woman.
She smiled softly as she sat down.
Nice.
Ben
The Modern Man is a company that teaches men how to meet,
attract and date women. In addition to offering live coaching
for men on how to meet and attract women in real-life
situations every weekend (Lifestyle Courses), they run a
seminar and have an e-book available for download.
For more information, go to: http://www.themodernman.com
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