Body Language Gestures and Signals of a Liar
What you are about to read is the broken down categories of
a liar's top nine giveaway gestures ranging from the common
movements of visual expressions to the more complex and
sophisticated autonomic nervous system.
1 The Visual Expression Giveaway Most
people will look down, look away, or might just glance at you
very briefly when they are lying. One explanation is simply
that they find it extremely hard to tell a lie when looking
into someone's eyes.
These looking down and away gestures are known to be part of
the self-doubt shifty-eyes expression. They usually indicate
the true underlying feeling of a person's deception, dishonesty
or confusion.
Although shifty eyes may not always suggest that a person is
telling an outright lie as he or she might just be feeling
under pressure, worrying or confused about certain feelings or
opinions. Nevertheless, the fact still remains that this
particular individual is indeed unable or unwilling to reveal
his or her current feelings and thoughts, and at the same time
trying very hard to conceal this information from you
2 The Doubtful Speech Giveaway
Recent research has revealed that the voice will become
monotonous and less resonant when a person is lying. When
people are holding back and withdrawing from freely expressing
themselves, their usual voices will flatten and losses it's
depth.
Other studies have also shown that people actually talk less
and tend to make a lot more mistakes in their speech when they
are lying. They are also more likely to slur, stutter or speak
with much hesitation, unless they are those already
well-trained smooth-talkers such as politicians, lawyers, sales
people or actors.
3 The Mouth Covering Giveaway
When a person is lying, he or she will normally cover the mouth
with the hand. This gesture is actually triggered by the
subconscious mind instructing itself to suppress the deceitful
and untruthful words that are being said. There will be times
when a closed fist or only several fingers that are placed over
the mouth, but its meaning remains very much the same.
On the contrary, let's say should you see someone else doing
this while you are the one talking, it will mean that the other
person is having doubt and finding it difficult to believe in
you.
4 The Nose Touching Giveaway As the nose
is very close to the mouth, rubbing, stroking or scratching of
that area is also a common gesture performed by someone who is
not telling the truth. Though occasionally there are times when
it might just be an actual physical itch at the area that needs
to be satisfied by scratching or rubbing.
However, there is a slight difference between a genuine
scratching to relieve an itch and a doubtful nose rubbing. A
real and actual itching feeling will result in a more obvious
rubbing motion, while the self-doubting or deceitful rub will
normally be just a light touch or stroke.
Similar to the mouth covering gesture, it can both be used
by a person who is trying to conceal his or her own deception,
and a person who is suspicious of what is being said by the
other party.
5 The Eye Rubbing Giveaway
Eye rubbing is another form of subconscious gesture performed
by the brain of people who is trying to avoid looking directly
into the eyes or the face of the person they are lying to. A
woman will rub gently just right below her eye in a small and
light gesture, whereas a man will rub the whole eye area in a
slightly more robust and vigorous way.
However, both men and women will share the very same gesture
of totally avoiding the listener's gaze by looking away at the
floor or ceiling if their deceptions are bigger than the usual
ones.
6 The Ear Twiddling Giveaway
Similarly, twiddling, rubbing or tugging of the earlobe is
another subconscious gesture of a person who is experiencing
uncertainty or confusion when he or she is talking, signaling a
lack of faith and confidence in what is being said.
And again, sharing the similarity of the mouth covering and
nose touching gestures, ear twiddling is also a sign that your
listener is having doubt and isn't convinced of the truth of
what is being said by you.
7 The Arms and Legs Crossing Giveaway
A person will often suddenly cross arms or legs simultaneously
when he or she chooses to lie about something during a
conversation. It is a form of gesture initiating advance
self-defense against any forthcoming challenges.
Feet pointing to the exit and constant foot tapping are
other common foot signals and gestures indicating the person
wants to get out and escape from the current situation. And on
many occasions, a lie and deception will be created to achieve
the desired escapement.
8 The Postural Language Giveaway
When a person is holding back the truth, his or her natural
honest physical expression will be held back as well, thus
resulting in a stiff and controlled body posture.
Subconsciously, people who are lying are less likely to touch
or sit very close to you, and occasionally they might even turn
their whole body away from you, trying to conceal both their
face and the truth.
Studies also show that when people are unconvinced
underneath and just pretending to agree with you, they will
reject you and unknowingly project postural language that
clashes with their spoken words.
9 The Nervous System Giveaway
Stress reactions such as sweating, dry mouth, face paling and
uneven breathing patterns are considered to be among the most
reliable indicators of dishonesty and insincerity as these
signals are quite impossible to be concealed.
These common stress reactions are produced by a person's
heightened sense of fear when telling a dramatic lie, and will
often cause the liar to lick his or her lips more frequently,
and probably even swallowing nervously. There may also be more
light coughing and throat clearing than usual too.
Putting Everything Together
Always remember to take into account the culture, personality
type, actual situation and underlying mood of the person during
your observation. It is very important to consider the whole
picture and not just that one or two isolated signals. By
following this guideline closely, you will deepen your skills
and understanding of accurate interpretation.
Hope you enjoyed reading and gotten a lot from this article.
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