Magic Languages of the Body
Reading Movements to Understand Languages
If a person is standing in the roadway motioning you with
his hands, thus you know this person is trying to get you to
stop. Likely there is an emergency that needs immediate
attention. Some of the most common body gestures are the
flirting types.
While a person is flirting with another person they will
often turn their body as though they are walking away. Some
people will survey a room, while others will dish out a
superficial smile. This is an affect that will mislead the
party of interest. Some people will use the body to lean toward
the person; otherwise will smile genuinely, while others will
stare into the eyes of the interesting party. Few people will
use the head tilting it from the side letting a person know
they are interested. This is a positive set of gestures.
Men specifically will gaze into a woman’s eyes if he is
interested in her. A man will connect with your eyes, abruptly
look another direct, and then glance back into your eyes if he
is interested in you.
Some people interested in another person will use their hand
to touch a part of the body, such as the shoulders, arm, or
hand. The message they are sending according to philosophers is
the person is telling you that he or she is making friends.
Some people believe if a person smooth out his hair or
clothing that it is a gesture of trying to look nice for the
person. If a man fondles a cigarette or a piece of jewelry,
according to philosophers he wants to get closer to you.
Other body signals include the parting of the lips as the
person licks them simultaneously. This is supposedly an
intimate gesture made by women. A woman that flicks or strokes
her hair is giving an intimate signal also, according to
philosophers. This one flips me out, according to philosophers
if a woman angles her knee in the direction of a male, she is
showing signs of wanting him. Go figure!
Men will sometimes stroke their chin or jaw line, which
according to philosophers is a clear indication of showing
interest. I have to think about this one, since men do this
frequently, and some men will do this as they study the
conversation or situation. Another notion of interest is that
if a woman uses here hands to massage areas of the body, such
as the neck and head, it supposedly is a sign she wants the
man. I have injuries and do this often, including around men
and most men I’ve seen in my area have nothing of interest to
make me act out or show interest to them.
Some say if a man rolls a pen or glass using the palms of
his hand and holding the object in between it is a sign of
want. Some of the most ludicrous notions is at what time a man
adjust his cuff links, dusts or flickers the dust from a piece
of clothing, or else flattens out the hair, thus the man is
showing a sign of interest. Personally, I am not sure if I
believe all this noise.
Some of the common body languages are conveyed with hands,
eyes, mouth, tongue, chest, posture, and so forth. Yet, what
some people may see a language of the body to represent, other
people may see differently. One of to find out what the best
gesture are while at an interview, is calling up employers in
your local area and ask them what they expect to see from a
person while interviewing them.
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