Magic Languages Related from the Body
Reading the Movements of Languages

Body language is just another theorist, guessing, opinionated based ideal that someone has to interpret to find its purpose in life. Words are by far more damning than body signals, yet most people fail to listen/hear what is being said and often draw their own conclusions as to what a person means while he speaks. This brings in body language, since now people are looking for ways to explain away human imperfections. Let’s really think about this ideal of body language saying more than words?

People have a strong tendency to nick pick through every word you say, extract what they like and toss away what they do not want to hear. Thus, the body may send signals, but if a person deeply listened every time a person spoke, you could find meaning in any languages, any person, and the like.

The top influences of the world have already set people up to hear what they want to hear. Thus, when you walk in the door of any public environment regardless of the intention with the goal of speaking to someone, you can bet this person (s) already have in mind what they want you to say. There is only a few of us that are exceptional to these rules of life.

We all have our own ways of thinking, our own ideals, our own vocabulary, etc, yet many of us are conformed to a normal society, which if you go outside their guidelines you are breaking the rules. This is a sign of control. Thus, this leads us to see clearly that what you say is not always what someone else wants to hear, and this includes professionals in society.

If you are going for a job interview, and submit a resume with the history of your employment. In the employment history you were honest, including informing the interviewer of the time you were fired at a job. The reason you were fired was because some illegal and unruly employer set you up to make it look like what happen was on your shoulders. You know better, but now you have to convince everyone else that you are not the moron, or villain whichever you prefer.

So what do you do? How can you combine body language with words to make the interviewer come to grips with reality and your words? First, you know you didn’t do anything wrong, yet you were punished for what someone else did, which is not uncommon. Therefore, you need to pull your convictions together and set a body language that shows the interviewer you are sincere, honest, open, and innocent of the act claimed against you.

You could have left out this employment history on your resume, but since you did not it is already an honest gesture. Now, we are aware that the employer will likely call the previous boss who obviously didn’t do his homework; otherwise he would have known someone committed the violation and you would still be working. What do you do?

First, you are going to briskly walk down the hall with your head held at a level and your posture upright. This is going to show the onlooker that you have confidence. Next, at what time you enter the room you are going to lift the eyebrow and eyes simultaneously to alert the employer that you are aware of his/her existence.

Now, you are going to shake hands with the employer, assuming your hands are clean and free of sweat which you should have taken care of before entering the office. Now, you will take a seat and with your eyes focused on the employer’s eyes, you are going to casually open the communication channels.

You’ve already informally introduced yourself in a polite manner while shaking hands. You will now sit across the table from the employer with your legs open slightly and your palms are open as well. This is telling the employer that you are relaxed, open, sincere, and innocent of any claims.

As the employer asks question use your confidence to build his trust. You will let him know that while you posted an employer on the resume in which you were fired, let him know that you want to verify this before it goes any future. Continue with confidence, convictions and sincerity.