How to Read Body Languages and Movements
Body language is the form of speaking in a non-verbal
fashion and is a common human behavior trait. The way people
read body languages differs yet it all boils down to
interpretation. To help you grasp a deeper meaning of body
language and its magic, let’s review.
If a person is walking upright in a brisk fashion he or she
is illustrating confidence. Now it depends on where you are at
in public as to how people will interpret this signal, but if
you are giving a public speech, at an interview, and the like
the person will be impressed at your achievements. It is a sign
you have accomplished an identity and a place in life. On the
other hand, if you were walking in certain neighborhoods, the
people may think you are a snob.
If you ever seen a mother stand with the hands on the hips,
it can send a signal of aggression or eagerness to deal with a
situation. Yet, some people will stand with their hands on
their hip as they verbally communicate, using the hip as a
resting area.
You probably noticed that many people will sit with their
legs crossed over the other, and will sit in a chair kicking
their feet in a slight gesture. According to theorists this is
a sign that the person is bored, which may be true. Many people
will cross their legs while sitting, thus it is a common body
language conveyed. Sometimes it is habit, since some people
follow environmental and hereditary habits.
Some people believe if a person stands upright with his/her
hands folded over the chest area, the person is signaling a
defense language. This is not always the truth, since military
men, and many men in society will cross their arms over the
chest area while speaking. This could mean that the men are
alert or that they are resting their arms. In some incidents it
could mean the person is keeping warm, especially if the
weather is cold.
If a person is seated and the legs are slightly parted, thus
it is according to theorist a signal that the person is relaxed
and open to communication.
If a person is noticed in a hallway, or walking down the
road, etc with his/her hands fixed in the pockets and the
shoulders are hunching, it is a sign that the person feels sad.
The fact is many men will walk with their hands in the pocket,
while hunching the shoulders. This could mean the posture is
out of alignment and that the man needs to rest his hands. This
is a body language I would need to study more into, since I am
not ready to verify that the sign of sadness is the true
interpretation of the language conveyed.
Some people will put their hands to their cheeks while
evaluating the situation or thinking of an issue in question.
Some people will put their hands to their cheek, while saying
oh my, my, my. This is a sign that they are thinking of what
you are saying, but uncertain if they agree to your words.
Alternatively, the person may feel amazed at your logic.
Some people claim that if a person is rubbing or touching
the nose slightly that the person is lying, feeling sad or else
in doubt. I second-guess this logic, since some people deal
with sinuses, allergies and the like and will often rub the
nose. You would have to decide the personality type of the
person speaking before you start calling them a liar, or
doubtful person.
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