Hearing the Body Magic Languages Conveyed Listening to
Movements to Read Body Language Magic
Signals are
nonverbal messages that are sent from the body, mouth, or
actions. As a person nods his head he is telling you that
it is ok, go ahead or else letting you know that he is in
agreement with what you are expressing.
If a person uses 2-fingers to point at another person’s
eyes, thus he is alerting you to watch out. A person patting
his or her hair could be sending the signal that he or she is
frustrated or interested in the other. If a person is naturally
smiling at you, you know the person is interested, happy, or
else liking what you are saying to him. Yet, if a person
crosses the arms about the chest you might think he is on the
defense, while others may see that he is relaxing.
Some of the most common body languages conveyed, including
crossing the arms about the chest, locking the ankles while
standing or sitting, rubbing the viaduct of the nose, loose
buttons on blouse or jacket, thumbs up and arms extending,
shaking hands, standing, sitting, lying, palms up or down and
open, palms sideways and open, slouching, straight posture,
direct contact with eyes, frowning, smiling, cheesing,
squinting the eyes, staring, and so forth.
One thing you want to do is learn body languages, especially
if you are a salesperson, going to an interview, appearing at a
public speech (giving the speech), greeting strangers, or
attempting to start up a relationship.
The wrong gesture could send an astounding message that will
either turn people away, make them anger, or else make them
listen. If you are at a professional gathering the last thing
you want to do is slouch in your chair or while standing. This
could lead the readers to think you are weak. Always stand up
straight and with your feet firmly balanced on the floor while
sitting and standing alike. If you are sitting you can also
keep the legs slightly apart to let them know you are open to
communications. The palms or hand messages could tell someone
that you are open also, and that you are sincere, honest and
attentive. Keep the palms open at all times during professional
meetings.
Some of the signals could mean to the receiver – this is not
to limit the meaning
Crossing arms over chest: This gesture could make someone
think you are on the defense.
Touch or rub viaduct of nose – some people may think you are
lying, in doubt, or else have an itch. If you want to introduce
yourself at an interview, or business meeting, always keep your
hands free of sweat, clean and shake with a friendly smile
while your posture is in proper stance. Keep the handshake
firm, yet avoiding causing pain to the receiver.
Avoid at all costs using the hand signal thumb upward and arms
extending, since it is a cultured languages that could be
misinterpreted. Limp handshakes should also be avoided, since
the interpreter may think you are lacking self-esteem.
Positive Body Languages
Stand up straight while walking briskly into a room. This
gesture will show confidence.
Never squeeze the hand hard while shaking hands, since it is a
sign of dominance.
Always stand straight up and avoid slouching. Slouching is
signal of weakness
Keep the palms open and up while speaking, since it indicates
you are honest, sincere, attentive, and open.
Avoid putting the hands in the pocket.
Always maintain proper eye contact. Eyes darting may read to
the receiver that you are deceitful.
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